Human potential – are you living up to yours?

“Everyone has inside of him a piece of good news.  The good news is that you don’t know how great you can be!  How much you can love!  What you can accomplish!  And what your human potential is!”  Anne Frank

Molly, age 7

The author at the age of decision

One of my earliest childhood memories is of sitting in my second grade class at Our Lady Help of Christians School in Brooklyn, New York during a lesson on the human body.

During the class, my teacher said something that knocked my socks off!  It was that human beings only use 10% of the capacity of their brains  [that was wrong; it’s now understood that virtually every part of the brain is active most of the time].

But when I heard that statement, I made a decision right then and there to get to using 100% of my brain power in my life.  That declaration led me on a circuitous exploration of personal growth, alternative lifestyles and spiritual paths, much to my parents’ chagrin.

What is the brain??  Is it our heart?

What is a leader?

 

“In gentleness there is great strength. Power most of the time is a very quiet thing.”  Sun Bear

The peacemaker

The Peacemaker

It’s President’s Day, and this is an election year, so my thoughts have gone to considering what makes a good leader.  And I wonder if we really know in this country what a good leader is.  Or, more importantly, do our own leaders know.

 Here are some Native American teachings about leadership:

A leader:

  •  is the poorest man in the tribe because when the old and orphaned are without, the chief gives from his own stores to take care of them;
  •  has compassion and looks out for the well-being of others;
  •  takes responsibility and admits mistakes;
  •  listens to the counsel of women in order to have a balanced viewpoint;
  • prizes peace above all else.

How to ask for what you want

hillsideThere is an old saying that, when the student is ready, the teacher appears.  It certainly was true for me.  I’m frequently asked how I got involved with the Native American spiritual path.  The short answer is: “I asked the universe.”

During college, I experimented with the usual recreational drugs and had an epiphany one day on a hillside in the Santa Monica Mountains.

High on mescaline, I saw a mountain breathe and immediately knew two things:

How Love Can Change Our World

An eye for an eye only ends up making the whole world blind.”  Mahatma Gandhi

 

Ghandi

Mahatma Ghandi

Any life coach will tell you not to watch the news because it will just bring you down.  Salesmen know not to watch it in the morning; it gets your day off to a bad start.  So I don’t follow the news closely, although I do scan headlines to have a general idea of what’s going on in the world.

But in the past 24 hours some things came to my attention I couldn’t ignore.  I watched Eve Ensler’s riveting talk on TED.com in which she spoke of the atrocities against women in warring third world countries.  Then I saw George Clooney’s film, “Three Kings” which, under the guise of entertainment, made a powerful statement about atrocities against the people of Iraq by Saddam’s Royal Guard.

There’s so much more, but I don’t need to list it all; we all are aware of the inhumanity going on around the world.  The question is: what’s to be done about it?

Why are we afraid to admit our mistakes?

Thomas Edison

Thomas Edison, inventor of the light bulb

“You can never learn less; you can only learn more.  The reason I know so much is because I have made so many mistakes.”   Buckminster Fuller

When my niece, Kate, was ready to start kindergarten, she had to first go through an interview consisting of ten questions to assess her social skills.  Nine of her answers were deemed “correct” but the reason she got one wrong  shocked me.

Question: “What do you do if you break something?”

Kate’s honest reply: “You tell the truth.”

Wrong answer!

The answer the school was looking for was, “you fix it.”

This doting aunt was quite appalled that Kate didn’t get credit for her excellent answer.  The U.S. might still be a British colony if George Washington had attended that kindergarten!